What Does Hagmaxxing Mean & Why Do People Do It?

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Learn about the origins of this popular Gen Z practice

Co-authored by Marcus Pruitt, BS

Last Updated: January 3, 2026

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Hagmaxxing Meaning

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Origin

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Why People Practice It

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Is hagmaxxing problematic?

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Gen Z is always talking about maxxing something. There’s looksmaxxing, gymmaxxing, and now hagmaxxing. Hagmaxxing involves dating people older than you, but takes things to the extreme. In this article, we explain what hagmaxxing is, where it even comes from, why it’s so popular, and more. Read on to learn all about the practice (and why people do it in the first place).

What does hagmaxxing mean?

Hagmaxxing typically refers to when younger people (usually men) intentionally date older women. It can also refer to the practice of maximizing personal traits that are associated with old age, such as spending more time alone and taking up hobbies that are usually associated with older people.

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What is hagmaxxing?

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Hagmaxxing is typically practiced by younger men, who limit their dating preferences to older women. The age gap tends to be fairly wide. While there aren’t any official numbers, the age gap tends to be at least 5 years or more, to the point where the difference in age is physically noticeable.^{[1]
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Hagmaxxing can also refer to older people who lean into their age. Leaning into your age, or hagmaxxing, in this sense, looks like practicing hobbies typically associated with older people, like crossword puzzles, staying indoors and watching game shows, or sitting on the porch. It may also involve taking pride in your aging looks rather than hiding them.^{[2]
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- Taking pride in your aging looks involves showing off your greying hair and keeping your wrinkles.

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Origin of Hagmaxxing

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The term “hagmaxxing” was first used in 2021 on 4Chan. In September 2021, an anonymous 4Chan user posted on the /r9k/ forum saying, “I dont care about looking old. Im hagmaxxing.” After this, the term wouldn’t see a resurgence in popularity until 2024, when @kinematografi took to X (formerly Twitter) to talk about how you need to be hagmaxxing, living in the swamp, and obsessed with preserving the forest.^{[3]
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- The original post from @kinematografi has since been deleted, but it was reposted by other X users, helping spur the term’s popularity.
- The trend of hagmaxxing, as it relates to dating older women, gained popularity from a fake news article posted to X.
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The practice of dating older people has been around for centuries. People have always dated outside their age, whether in ancient times or in modern day. Being attracted to older people has always been a thing, but hagmaxxing just gives it a name.

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Why is hagmaxxing so popular?

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Hagmaxxing is popular thanks to a fake news article, 4Chan, and X. While the term originated in 4Chan and gained popularity through X (formerly Twitter), the trend of hagmaxxing as it relates to dating older women didn’t become popular until an image of a fake news article reading “Meet the hagmaxxers: Gen Z’s new social trend of dating older women” was shared across X through various account for engagement.^{[4]
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- Although the image was fake, the concept of hagmaxxing gained popularity online through memes and interactions in various internet communities.
- “Maxxing,” which means practicing something to the extreme, is also extremely popular among members of Gen Z, making hagmaxxing popular by proxy.

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Why People Practice Hagmaxxing

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Some people hagmaxx because they want sugar mamas. Matchmaker April Davis says she sometimes sees guys going for older women because they’re looking for a sugar mama (someone who gives you money for romantically interacting with them).^{[5]
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- For the older women, Davis says they prefer younger guys because “they’re helpful and they’re handy, they’re not afraid to make her dinner.” They make her feel special, which some older women value.^{[6]
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- While Davis cites men for these behaviors, hagmaxxing isn’t limited to gender, and these reasons go both ways.
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Other people hagmaxx because they’re attracted to older people. Hagmaxxing isn’t just done to secure a sugar mama or sugar daddy—sometimes, people just like being with older people. Whether that’s because of looks, a desire for maturity, or something else entirely depends on the person, but in this case, it all boils down to some sort of attraction.

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Is hagmaxxing problematic?

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The term “hagmaxxing” tends to be more problematic than the practice. Since you’re technically calling the older people you’re trying to date hags, the term is problematic, as “hag” is often used to crudely refer to an old woman. The practice itself isn’t problematic, however, as long as you aren’t dating for the wrong reasons (like trying to use them for their money or fetishizing them).^{[7]
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- At the end of the day, preferring to date older people isn’t a problem, but referring to older people as “hags” can be considered offensive and ageist!