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Also consider dying your hair unnatural colours if you've not tried that. As for makeup, I guess it's just the usual feminine stuff: Blush, thick eyeliner, lipstick or lip gloss/chapstick (especially the light pink one). And fake lashes if you're into that sort of thing.
Maybe try explaining why you're a lesbian and how it's definitely not a choice or a phase. If you're also a Christian, you can try relating it to the religion, like saying how God accepts everyone for who they are, including people of different sexualities and gender identities.
Also, I'd recommend waiting until the right time to talk to your dad about this. It might take a while for him to understand your identity and experiences.
I also have homophobic parents who are Muslim, although I'm an atheist. I've not come out to them about being bisexual and am not planning to, especially since my mom is very homophobic and likes to complain about gay people she sees in the media. And I think my dad was influenced by her as he now points out people he assumes are gay on TV, like non-Korean men who wear makeup or drag queens who are interviewed during Pride Month, etc.
I hope this helps.