16 Signs a Libra Woman Secretly Likes You, According to Astrologers

Learn all the things a Libra woman does when she’s falling in love

Co-authored by Devin McSween Reviewed by Tali & Ophira Edut

Last Updated: January 21, 2026 Fact Checked

With their charming personalities, loving natures, and genuine kindness, it’s no wonder that you’d fall for a Libra woman! This social and flirty air sign gets along with just about anyone, so you might be wondering how to tell if she’s into you romantically. Luckily, there are some tell-tale signs that a Libra likes you! In this article, we’ll go over all the ways to tell that a Libra is falling for you, with insights from expert astrologers. Keep reading to learn more!

How do you know if a Libra woman likes you?

When a Libra woman likes you, she’ll prioritize spending time with you and give you all of her attention. She’ll show genuine interest in you and learn about your hobbies. A Libra woman who likes you will also flirt a lot, dress up around you, and give you gifts. When she’s really comfortable, she’ll open up to you.

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She smiles when you’re around.

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Libras are naturally open and wear their emotions on their face. If a Libra woman likes being around you, you’ll be able to tell simply by looking at her the next time you two are together. If she’s smiling, laughing, and generally seems to be having a good time, it’s a good bet that she enjoys your company.
- On the other hand, if she looks closed off or sad, she might not be having the best time. Check in with her to see how she’s doing—there might be something else going on that she wants to open up about.
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Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 30 years of experience. Her work has been featured in CNN, The Today Show, Rolling Stone, and more.

Tali & Ophira Edut, also known as the AstroTwins, are astrologers and founders of the horoscope website Astrostyle.

Angel Eyedealism is a professional astrologer with nearly 30 years of astrology experience. She specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography.

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She makes time for you.

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Air signs are some of the busiest and most social signs, so this is a big deal! The fact that your Libra woman makes the time to see you and spend time with you is great. It means you’re a priority in her life, and that she dedicates some of her busy schedule just to you.^{[1]
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- Try not to take offense if a Libra woman doesn’t always have time to dedicate to you. She probably has a lot of friends, and that comes with a lot of social engagements.
- A Libra woman likes to be a priority in your life, too. If you’re into her, make sure to set aside time to spend with her and invite her to hang out with you.

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She learns about your interests.

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If a Libra is into you, she’ll show genuine interest in you. Libras are caring and thoughtful, and want to know everything they can about the people they like. If she’s got the hots for you, she’ll ask you about your hobbies and interests to understand you and find common ground. But she won’t just stop there—she’ll learn everything about your interests, support them, and even ask to participate in them with you.
- Show interest in your Libra woman, too. Ask her about her hobbies and what brings her joy, and follow up with her about the things she tells you.

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She checks up on you.

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When a Libra woman cares about you, you’ll never feel alone. She’ll ask about your day, see how you’re doing, and just generally be interested in your day-to-day life. This means that she really wants to get to know you more, and you should open yourself up to her if you feel comfortable, says astrologer Jessica Lanyadoo.^{[2]
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- Libra women remember the little details you tell them and will follow up about the things you say. For instance, she’ll ask how your big presentation went or whether the new restaurant you mentioned trying was good.
- She’ll also probably notice any changes in your behavior. There’s no hiding a bad mood from a Libra woman—she can spot it like a hawk.

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She takes you on adventures.

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Libras are naturally curious and enjoy trying new things with their partner. If she plans something fun to try out and invites you along, it means she really values you as a person and wants you to experience the same thing she does. Try to say yes to her invitations, even if they seem a little scary. Your relationship will benefit from it!
- Libras love having fun stories to tell. If she had a good time with you, you’ll probably hear her relay the experience to her friends.
- Thrill your Libra woman by inviting her on adventures of your own! She’ll love knowing that you’re open-minded and curious, too.

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She gives you a lot of attention.

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Libra women want to spend 24/7 with the ones they love. Libra might be a flirtatious social butterfly, but when she finds someone she likes, she just wants to be around them. If she’s going out of her way to text, talk, and hang out with you, and zeros in on you when you’re together, that’s a pretty clear sign she likes you!
- If you’re into a Libra, let her know her attention is appreciated! Initiate conversations and ask her questions about herself just as much as she does.

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She plans romantic dates.

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Special memories are very important to the nostalgic Libra. If she truly cares for you, she’ll want to create lasting memories that have an artistic touch. She might invite you to a picnic in the park, take you out for a candle-lit dinner, or order takeout and cuddle up on the couch. Whatever she chooses, once the romantic gestures start, you’ll know that she likes you a lot.^{[3]
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- She’ll probably also invest a lot of time and energy into making sure everything is “perfect.” Make sure to tell her that you always enjoy your time together to take some of the pressure off of her.
- Invite your Libra on aesthetic and romantic dates to signal your interest, too. To win her heart, astrologers Tali & Ophira Edut suggest that you “dress well, smell good, and come up with occasions to go out and dress up together and take pictures.”^{[4]
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She flirts with you.

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Flirty Libra will make it clear that she’s interested in you. Libra is known as being naturally charismatic and flirtatious—they can’t turn off their charm. But, if a Libra woman really likes you, she’ll pull out all the stops so you know she feels comfortable around you. For instance, she’ll probably tease you, flatter you with lots of compliments, give you hugs, and hold your hand in public, says Lanyadoo.^{[5]
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Expert Interview} These are all good signs, and it means that your Libra woman is really falling for you.
- Flirt with your Libra back to let her know you like her back! Pay her compliments, do sweet gestures for her, and tease her a little, too.
- The Eduts note that Libras like having cute pet names like “Sweetie” and “Honey.”^{[6]
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  Expert Interview} So, give your Libra woman a sweet nickname to show her you’re into her!
- Physical touch is one of Libra’s love languages, says the Eduts. According to them, Libras “need a lot of affection” and “constant hugging and sensuality.”^{[7]
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  Expert Interview} Turn up the heat by giving your Libra a squeeze or a gentle caress.

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She surprises you with thoughtful gifts.

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Romantic Libra likes to shower her crush with affection. According to the Eduts, gift giving is one of Libra’s love languages.^{[8]
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Expert Interview} She wants her partner to feel adored and appreciated, and goes above and beyond to make sure they do. Since she’s a great listener and has a great eye, you’ll likely notice her surprising you with the little things you mention wanting in passing. Or, she’ll just randomly show up with something that reminded her of you, whether that’s a mug, shirt, or box of cookies.
- Unsurprisingly, stylish and refined Libra likes receiving gifts almost as much as she likes giving them. Surprise her with tokens of your affection, too, like a box of chocolates, a bouquet of flowers, or a heartfelt note.

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She engages you in deep discussions.

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Libras love details and have highly analytical minds. Be prepared to dive deep into the most mundane topics, even if you thought you could never spend time on a subject, says Lanyadoo.^{[9]
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Expert Interview} When a Libra woman feels comfortable around you, she’s going to involve you in a ton of discussions, so try to give the same effort back to her.^{[10]
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- Air signs, like Libra, tend to look at things a little differently than the rest of us do. Listen to her perspective, and be open to thinking about things in a new way.
- For instance, she might say, “Have you ever thought about why birds fly?” or, “I wonder what stars look like up close.”

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She puts effort into her appearance around you.

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Libras tend to value their appearance a lot. When a Libra woman likes you, she’s probably going to spend time making sure she looks good before she sees you, explains Lanyadoo.^{[11]
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Expert Interview} The Eduts agree, saying that when a Libra is in love, “they make themselves pretty and…try to create this harmonious environment.”^{[12]
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Expert Interview} This means that she cares what you think about her, and that she values your opinion (which is a great sign).
- On the flip side, some Libra women will actually relax the effort they put into their appearance once they feel comfortable with you. If she hangs out with you in sweatpants or without makeup on, take it as a good sign, too.
- With Venus, the planet of love and beauty as their ruler, Libra admires someone who puts effort into their appearance, too, says professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism. And because Libra is an air sign, she wants someone refined and attractive, but also intelligent.^{[13]
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She speaks her mind around you.

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As a Libra, she doesn’t let her guard down easily. If she feels comfortable enough with you that she can speak openly and freely, it means that she likes you and she’s definitely warming up to you. This is a great sign, because it means she can relax around you and isn’t afraid to feel vulnerable with you.
- For instance, she might share her deepest wishes and fears with you, or simply open up about something that’s bothering her.
- She’ll probably even speak more freely about your relationship together and any issues. When a Libra feels comfortable about you, she won’t hesitate to tell you what’s on her mind.
- Be vulnerable and open with your Libra woman right back. Let her in on how you’re feeling, and tell her about your life to help you both grow closer.

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She’s there for you if you’re struggling.

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Libras are very in tune with other people’s emotions. If she notices that you’re having a tough time, she’s going to ask you about it, and she’ll try her best to make you feel better. Feel free to open up to her and tell her what’s going on, because Libras are usually pretty good about helping people overcome their fears and struggles, says Lanyadoo.^{[14]
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- The Eduts agree, saying Libras are “really good listeners” who “will really take the time” and are “known for their patience.”^{[15]
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- Libras are also very selfless, and they’ll put your needs before their own. They’re great people to have in your corner, especially if you’re going through a tough time.
- Listen to and be there for your Libra, too. She’ll appreciate having someone to talk to and lean on when she’s going through hard times.

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She doesn’t judge you.

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Once she’s decided that she likes you, she’ll accept you for who you are. Libras are kind and compassionate, and they take everyone at face value, especially if they’re close. When a Libra woman likes you, you won’t ever feel like she’s judging you or questioning your values. You’ll feel safe and secure in your relationship, no matter what.^{[16]
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- Libras are very open-minded, so be accepting of her as well. This will help her open up to you and be more vulnerable, and you’ll probably get to see her weird side, too!

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She lets you take the lead (sometimes).

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Libras don’t like it when other people make decisions for them. However, they’re also fairly indecisive and often need a helping hand when making tough decisions. When a Libra woman trusts you, she’ll hand over the reins and let you decide what’s best, but only occasionally. Doing this is a big deal for a Libra woman, so don’t take it lightly.
- For example, maybe she’s having a tough time deciding where you two should go on vacation. If she trusts you, she might give you a few options and ask for your opinion, or even let you help plan the trip.
- Help your Libra woman make decisions, but don’t make them for her. If she’s having trouble deciding between something, give her a few options or talk through the pros and cons with her, instead.

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She settles down.

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When a Libra is content, she won’t feel the need to change as often. You might have noticed that when you first met your Libra woman, she was acting flighty, indecisive, or noncommittal. As she falls for you and feels more content with you, she’ll probably slow down a little, and she might seem more at peace. This is a great sign—it means that she’s truly happy with you, and she doesn’t feel the need to constantly change anymore.
- At this stage, a Libra woman might even tell you to your face that she likes you! While Libras have a reputation for being flighty, they’re true romantics who want a serious, long-term partner.^{[17]
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How do you compliment a Libra?

Jessica Lanyadoo
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Jessica Lanyadoo is a Humanistic Astrologer, psychic medium, and animal communicator with over 30 years of professional experience. Known for her grounded and accessible approach, she helps individuals cultivate emotional intelligence and navigate life with clarity. She is the author of Meditations for Your Sign (2025) and Astrology for Real Relationships (2020) and hosts the acclaimed podcast Ghost of a Podcast. Her work has been featured in CNN, The Today Show, Rolling Stone, Vogue Italia, Time Magazine, Oprah Magazine, and more.

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Flattery is a key factor in complimenting a Libra. Give examples of the precise feature that is complimented, be it her clothes, appearance, or style. Elevation of her ego is essential.

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