What's My Green Flag?

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We know you're a total catch, but what exactly makes you such a 10/10 when it comes to dating? It's time to find out!

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Questions Overview

1. What's your go-to flirting tactic when you have a crush?
  1. Showing them that I'm outgoing and fun.
  2. Getting to know them through deep convos.
  3. Classic romantic gestures (flowers, chocolates, etc.).
  4. Spending time with them to show that I'm serious.
  5. Honestly, I usually wait for them to approach me!
2. When you're in love, what does it feel like to you?
  1. A warm, comforting glow.
  2. An intense, fiery explosion.
  3. A deep ocean of emotion.
  4. I haven't been in love yet!
3. Which of these things do you think is most important in a relationship?
  1. Having the same sense of humor.
  2. Having shared values.
  3. Having your own lives outside the relationship.
  4. Emotional compatibility.
  5. Physical chemistry.
4. Which of these qualities are you most attracted to in a partner?
  1. Empathy
  2. Stability
  3. Passion
  4. Charisma
  5. Ambition
5. Which of these qualities do you find least attractive in a partner?
  1. Narcissism! I hate when someone is all about themselves.
  2. Being closed-off emotionally. Love requires vulnerability!
  3. Flakiness! I want someone I can count on.
  4. Being too stuffy or serious. Relationships should be fun!
  5. Codependence. I need someone who respects my space!
  6. Being too casual about romance. I'm looking for a soulmate!
6. What do you think is the hardest thing to overcome in a relationship?
  1. Having different communication styles.
  2. Having different levels of introversion or extroversion.
  3. Having different long-term goals.
  4. Having different love languages.
7. Finish this statement: I want a partner who is ______
  1. My best friend.
  2. My one true love.
  3. My adventure buddy.
  4. My biggest cheerleader.
8. What's one quality you have that you're super proud of?
  1. I always show up for the people I care about.
  2. I'm unapologetically myself.
  3. I love with my whole heart, always.
  4. I bring fun energy wherever I go.
9. What's one minor "red flag" you have in romance that you'd like to work on?
  1. It takes a while for me to open up emotionally.
  2. I tend to fall in love a little too quickly.
  3. I'm kinda shy, so I struggle to put myself out there.
  4. I'm really outgoing, and sometimes I take up too much space in conversation.
  5. I can be a little flaky sometimes.
  6. Sometimes I'm a little clingy.
10. And finally, what three words would you use to describe your ideal relationship?
  1. Stable, caring, and loyal.
  2. Passionate, romantic, and intense.
  3. Unique, unconventional, and exciting.
  4. Playful, fun, and laid-back.

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What Are Green Flags in Dating?

  • Being a good communicator. Healthy communication is an essential part of a successful relationship, so if a potential partner has great communication skills, this is a major green flag. This includes being an active listener who pays attention to what you're saying, as well as being able to effectively voice their own thoughts and emotions.
  • Being trustworthy. A relationship is nothing without trust, so it's a great sign when someone is true to their word. If you feel like you can easily believe what a potential partner has to say and you can rest assured that they're being honest, this is definitely a green flag.
  • Being reliable. Does this person show up on time? Do they follow through on plans they make with you? Do they call or text when they say they will? This type of consistency is a major green flag in dating because it shows they're taking the relationship seriously, and they respect your time!
  • Being independent. In a healthy partnership, both people have their own lives outside of the relationship, and they're able to balance togetherness with their individual interests and needs. It's a big green flag if someone is independent in this way, rather than codependent.
  • Having shared values. If a relationship is going to last long-term, it's important that your morals and values line up. When someone cares about the same things you do and has a similar belief system to you, this is a great sign for the success of your partnership!
  • Having a similar sense of humor. Relationships are serious business, but it's essential that you're able to laugh and be playful with each other, too. If a potential partner has you cracking up all the time and laughs at the same things you do, definitely count this as a green flag.
  • Being able to compromise. A partnership requires compromise, so having an "it's my way or the highway" type of attitude definitely isn't sustainable. When someone's able to meet you in the middle or adjust their opinion when presented with new info, this is a big sign that they'd make a good partner!
  • Respecting your boundaries. When you express your needs and boundaries to this person, do they respect them? Or, do they push back on them, try to get you to change your mind, or ignore them completely? Remember, a partner should always respect your boundaries and make you feel safe in your relationship![1]

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  1. ↑ https://www.thehotline.org/resources/green-flags-in-a-relationship/