Are They My Best Friend...Or My Soulmate?

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You know they’re your bestie…but what if they could be something more? What if they could be your fated love match, or even a platonic soulmate with whom you have a deep, destined, but non-romantic connection with? We’ll give you the answers to these questions and more…just click “Start Quiz” to begin!

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Questions Overview

1. Which emoji shows up the most in your and your bestie’s text thread?
  1. 😘
  2. 😂
  3. ❤️
  4. 👍
2. Which of these topics do you and your BFF discuss the most?
  1. Your shared values, hopes, and dreams for the future.
  2. Your deepest emotions and feelings.
  3. Your crushes and dating lives.
  4. Pop culture or your latest binge-watch.
3. Which of these words best describes your friendship?
  1. Electric or exciting
  2. Close or intimate
  3. Complicated or turbulent
  4. Chill or comfortable
4. What best describes how you feel when you hug them?
  1. Warm or comforted
  2. Friendly or relaxed
  3. Nervous or giddy
  4. Stiff or awkward
5. How do you feel when your BFF is dating someone?
  1. A bit jealous...or like they don't have enough time for me.
  2. I miss them, but I'm also happy that they're happy!
  3. It depends...if I like their partner, it's cool. If not, I get upset!
  4. As long as my friend is being treated well, I'm unbothered!
6. When you start dating someone, do you need your bestie's approval first?
  1. Yes!! If my BFF doesn't like them, they're gone.
  2. Yeah, I want their approval, but it's usually not an issue!
  3. It depends...I value their opinion, but it wouldn't be the only factor.
  4. Not at all! They don't have any sway over my romantic life.
7. Let's say that you're in a relationship and you get a piece of exciting news. Who do you call first?
  1. My best friend, for sure.
  2. Probably my romantic partner, but I'd call my bestie right after.
  3. Hm...it depends on the type of news.
  4. My romantic partner, without a doubt!
8. Do you and your bestie tell each other everything?
  1. Almost everything...we leave out the really personal details.
  2. Yes!! We tell each other every single detail of our lives!
  3. We share a lot, but we don't get too deep with feelings.
  4. No, we mainly stick to major life events and superficial stuff.
9. What’s the furthest you’d ever live from your bestie?
  1. Um...can we live in the same house? Or next door to each other?
  2. I'd want to live in the same town or city.
  3. Maybe a couple of hours' drive or a short plane ride.
  4. My BFF wouldn't influence decisions about where I want to live.
10. When you need cheering up, your friend is most likely to:
  1. Come over to your house with flowers and treats.
  2. Call you immediately and hash out the problem with you.
  3. Invite you out to take your mind off of things.
  4. Text you a kind and encouraging message.
11. What do other close people in your life think of your friendship?
  1. They basically treat us like we're a married couple already.
  2. They admire our super close and lasting friendship.
  3. They joke about us getting together, but it's just for laughs.
  4. They don't really comment on it, tbh.
12. Be honest—do you think that you and your bestie are soulmates?
  1. Yes...I think I'm in love with them!
  2. Yes, but in a platonic way! I value them SO much as a friend.
  3. I don't know...I feel close to them, but I'm not sure!
  4. No, I think we're just good friends, tbh.

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10 Signs Your Best Friend Is Your Soulmate (Platonic or Romantic!)

1. You can sit together in silence without feeling awkward or uncomfortable.

2. You understand each other implicitly—you can finish each other's sentences and know what the other person is thinking without speaking.

3. You feel totally okay to be your truest, goofiest, most vulnerable self around them.

4. You're completely honest with each other and give helpful advice...even when the truth feels harsh.

5. Your connection feels just as strong and familiar when you haven't seen each other in a long time.

6. You genuinely celebrate and support each other, and you each love being the other person's biggest fan!

7. You have a shared sense of humor, almost like your own language—and they laugh at even your weirdest of jokes!

8. You're super familiar with and integrated into each other's lives and families.

9. They challenge and help you to grow and become the best version of yourself.

10. They're the first person you think of reaching out to when you have news—good or bad!