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    Is "I miss you" better than "I wish you were here"?
    Julia McCurley
    Julia McCurley
    Certified Professional Matchmaker
    Julia McCurley is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, and the CEO of Something More, Austin's premier matchmaking service. She has been creating happy couples in Austin for over 12 years and has helped hundreds of singles on their journey to finding love. Her blogs have been published on the Huffington Post, Good Men Project, SheKnows, Emlovz, and The Dating Truth. She also just published her first book, Game Set Match: A Professional Matchmaker's Advice on How to Win At the Game Of Love. Julia holds a BA in Business and Communications from The University of Puget Sound and received her Master Executive Matchmaker Certification from The Matchmaking Institute.
    Julia McCurley
    Certified Professional Matchmaker
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    So long as you make it clear that you've been thinking about them, it shouldn't matter too much. The goal is to make someone think that you're into them without overplaying your hand, so either one works!
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    Is it okay to text a crush first?
    Julia McCurley
    Julia McCurley
    Certified Professional Matchmaker
    Julia McCurley is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, and the CEO of Something More, Austin's premier matchmaking service. She has been creating happy couples in Austin for over 12 years and has helped hundreds of singles on their journey to finding love. Her blogs have been published on the Huffington Post, Good Men Project, SheKnows, Emlovz, and The Dating Truth. She also just published her first book, Game Set Match: A Professional Matchmaker's Advice on How to Win At the Game Of Love. Julia holds a BA in Business and Communications from The University of Puget Sound and received her Master Executive Matchmaker Certification from The Matchmaking Institute.
    Julia McCurley
    Certified Professional Matchmaker
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    Yes! If you want to start a conversation, go ahead and do it. The "hard to get" thing isn't going to work over text and you should never assume that they don't want to talk to you just because they haven't reached out first.
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    Why do people overuse exclamation points when texting?
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    Exclamation points are used to communicate tone. If someone texted you "Hey" it might come across as bored or disinterested. Saying "Hey!" instead is more lively and pleasant.
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    What if she's not interested?
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    Don't force it. If she doesn't want to talk, or wants to just want to keep the conversation friendly, respect that and either stop talking to her, or keep it platonic.
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