Tips on how to make small talk

12/15/25 6:23pm

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Hunter Rising
wikiHow Staff

12/15/25 6:25pm

To make small talk with anyone, start off with a good icebreaker question to get the other person talking and keep the conversation moving. Some easy questions you can use as small talk conversation starters include:

What was the highlight of your weekend?
What do you like most about what you do?
Have you read any great books lately?
How have you been enjoying this weather?
What hobbies are you involved in?
What's the last thing you watched that you absolutely loved?

When the other person responds, listen to their response carefully and ask follow-up questions or relate what they're saying to your life to build the connection with them. Don't worry about filling the silence if there's a lull in the conversation because they happen naturally.

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Amber Rosenberg, PCC
Founder of Pacific Life Coach

12/15/25 6:32pm

If you’re feeling awkward or weird about making small talk, simply focus on the other person. Be engaging with meaningful questions because they help you interact in a way that feels more authentic and less superficial. Instead of asking yes or no questions, try open-ended questions that start with “How” or “What”. For example, “What are your thoughts on this event?”

Listen to truly hear them instead of half-listening while thinking about how to respond. Then, reflect back what you heard by paraphrasing what the other person said. For example, “It sounds like you’re really enjoying this event.” If you practice open-ended questions, active listening and reflecting back on what you hear, other people will respond very positively.

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