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I have a crush but I don’t know if he likes me

WikiFoxJumper463
WikiFoxJumper463
06/09/25 10:16pm
I have a crush on a boy in my class. He recently requested to sit next to me in class and the teacher approved it. He often stares at me. Once I overheard him and his friend talking about me asking him if he knew more about me. He also once tried kissing me but I was so dumb and pulled away. He also always makes excuses to touch me. Lastly he always texts me and called me in the middle of the night! What should I do?
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April Davis
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01/30/26 7:36pm
He's already shown his interest in you. He switched seats to sit beside you, is calling and texting you, and even tried to kiss you. From what you wrote, it's apparent that he's attracted to you. The next time you two talk, I would simply tell him that you're attracted to him and you were just uncertain about his advances before. Good luck, I have a feeling that he will be very glad you told him :)
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WikiToadCatcher723
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10/29/25 11:27pm
I have a crush on a guy but he their are rumors that he likes another girl... But he doesn't really talk to her and yet he's showing signs he might like me.. What should I do?
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WikiKangarooJammer282
WikiKangarooJammer282
12/16/25 9:04pm
1st off He like you if he keeps on staring at you and also you should just like let it flow And just like you keep on like sitting next to him Or stare back at him
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NeptuneCrystalz!!
NeptuneCrystalz!!
12/29/25 7:18am
I'm assuming he makes the first small moves, and you like him back, so I recommend going with the flow and maybe you could drop a few hints as well along the way!
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WikiCapybaraDiver500
WikiCapybaraDiver500
11/13/25 4:54am
my crush who i have liked since forever got a girlfiend right before i was going to tell him what should i do
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01/10/26 3:22am
Sad 4 u srry
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Selenarrr11
Selenarrr11
06/11/25 2:37am
If you like him back, then maybe you should think about letting him in a little bit and just going for it. If you don't like him, then you should definitely tell him that and make it clear so he doesn't bother you.
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