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I don't know whether i should end my friendship or not

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09/29/25 4:55pm
I don't know what to do. There is a friend I have and we are at the same class together. But she is encouraging me to rebel against everyone, when she arrives at school everyday she is always several hours late or even doesn't come at all 1 or 2 times a week. I don't know whether I should end my friendship or not. Please help me.
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Desiree Panlilio
Desiree Panlilio
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10/28/25 4:53pm
Friendships are tough, especially when you have been friends for so long. Have you had an honest conversation with your friend? Tell her that you do not share the same rebellious feelings. That you value your education, value the opportunity to learn. That you want to be her friend, but your values and beliefs do not allow you to be late for school, rebel against others, and not create the future of success that you want for yourself. The other part of the conversation is to ask your friend why the behavior has changed. Don't ask why once, but ask why three times. Has something changed so that your friend has changed their behavior? Friends hold each other accountable, encourage one another, and never make one go against their values or boundaries. I have written a book on Teen Friendship which would be helpful. Here is the link.
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